Giving Good Head

By Allan Sharpe
Copyright © 2008, Blowjob Tutorial

Giving good head is all about learning the different techniques that provide extreme pleasure to your man and like every other sexual skill that you have, you have to learn how.  The key to this is communication and if you canít communicate openly with your partner, then our guide to giving good head is probably wasted.

The first step to giving good head is realizing that when you are performing oral sex on your partner you are doing it for him.  It should not feel like a chore and you should never allow yourself to send out any negative vibes.  This will take away from his pleasure.

The next step to giving good head is all about positioning.  You need to find a position that you find comfortable for both partners.  If you intend on practicing deep throating then allowing your partner to be on top is probably best.  If you prefer to take total control you should be on top.  Whichever position you choose make sure that you are comfortable and relaxed before you begin.

Giving Good Head and Mind Blowing Orgasms

Most people assume that a blowjob is just sucking on the penis but if you really want to please your man and produce mind blowing orgasms you should start with a little teasing.  Start by licking and kissing around the penis, his inner thighs, and even his testicles.  Then slowly move up the shaft of his penis towards the head the penis licking and kissing as you go. 

Once you have reached the tip of the penis, use your tongue to really get him going.  Using the tip of your tongue lick around the head of the penis especially the underside as this is where the penis is supersensitive.  You can continue teasing in this way for a little longer but not too long as it can become frustrating.

One of the most common mistakes most women make when giving a blowjob is that they only use their mouth and keep repeating the same thing over and over again until their partner either comes or they themselves get a pain in their neck and a sore jaw. 

Giving good head involves change and this should include stroking his penis using your hand and exploring the penis and surrounding area including his testicles using your mouth and your tongue.  By changing what you are doing throughout the blowjob not only will your partner achieve greater pleasure but you will also allow the muscles in your jaws and neck to relax meaning that you can go longer.

How you mix things up will really depend on what your partner likes and this is where communication is most important. 

The longer you can make your partner last, the more intense and powerful his orgasm will be.  In order to do this, it is a good idea to keep a close eye on his scrotum.  When he gets close to orgasm the skin on his scrotum will tighten and his testicles will move up towards his body.  When you notice this happening you can change what you are doing if you want him to last longer.  This is also a good indicator if you donít want your partner to come in your mouth.

Once you get the hang of performing these basic blowjob techniques and are comfortable you can always explore more advanced techniques and experiment using lubricants, massage oils, and food substances.  You can also explore the whole area of deep throating but you should be aware that this technique takes time to learn but is worthwhile if you can master it.

On a final note I would like to mention teeth.  There are very few men that like the feeling of teeth against their penis.  To avoid this you should cover your teeth with your lips before his penis enters your mouth.  Teeth can cause a lot of discomfort not to mention cuts and scratches to the penis.  So be careful not to get over excited, he wonít thank you in the morning.

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