How To Give A Good Blow Job

By Allan Sharpe
Copyright © 2008, Blowjob Tutorial

This article deals with how to give a good blow job even if it is your first ever attempt. One thing I should point out if it is your first time, donít worry your partner is not going to expect you to be an expert straight off. Our guide to how to give a good blow job will help to answer those many questions that women have and there are also some guidelines for you to follow so that both you and your partner will enjoy the experience.

One thing I have to say before we get into it is that practice will make perfect but you also need to experiment and listen to what your partner has to say. What some men may like others may not so make sure you talk with your partner afterwards. Ask him if there is anything he would like you to do differently or if there is something he would like you to do that you didnít. This is the true way of learning how to give a good blow job.

How To Give A Good Blow Job For The First Time

Listed below are a few guidelines that you can keep in mind about giving a blow job.

  1. You must like what you are doing. There is no point in trying to learn how to give a good blow job if the whole idea of putting a penis in your mouth repulses you. No matter how hard you try to hide it, it will show and this is a big turn off. When your partner knows that you enjoy giving him a blowjob, he will relax and enjoy it more.

  2. Donít just suck, use your tongue too. Men love having the head of their penis teased with your tongue and flicking it across his head is a real turn on.

  3. Mind those teeth. Always make sure your lips are covering your teeth when you are giving a blowjob. Teeth can be dangerous and believe me your partner really wonít thank you for any little accidents. It is his pride and joy we are talking about so donít damage it.

  4. Use your hands. Yes hands are an essential part of how to give a good blow job. You can use them to help things along, and to play with his testicles which can be just as important.

Some other things that you may wonder about include deep-throating. This is supposedly extremely hard to do and involves being able to control your gag reflex. The trick is to swallow when you feel like gagging. Of course if you canít deep throat donít worry about it most men really arenít that bothered and you can achieve the very same feeling by using your hands on the part of the shaft that you canít take into your mouth.

Vary your techniques using your mouth, tongue, and hands to give your partner the best oral pleasure. You will also need to speed up the pace of your stroking as you progress. Most importantly relax and make sure that you are 100% comfortable; depending on your partner you could be in this position for quite some time.

Now that you know the basics of how to give a good blow job there is still the question of spit or swallow. Simply put the decision lies with you and whether you want to swallow or not. If you donít want to swallow make sure to say this to your partner beforehand so that he knows in advance.

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