How To Give Good Blow Jobs

By Allan Sharpe
Copyright 2008, Blowjob Tutorial

When it comes to the issue of oral sex everyone professional will agree that how to give good blow jobs will all depend on the trust and communication you have with your partner. You can learn all the techniques there is but if you don't communicate and trust your partner it really won't make any difference.

If you really want to know how to give good blow jobs then I suggest you read the rest of this article.

You will never be able to give a good blow job if you don't know what your partner likes or dislikes. Knowing this will make all the difference when it comes to working on your blow job techniques.

Another important factor will be how committed you are. Do you really want to give your partner a good blow job or are you just doing it because he has asked you to. If you are only doing it to because you have been hounded into doing it he will know. Men are not as stupid as women like to think they are so if you really want to know how to give good blow jobs then learn to enjoy what you are doing before you go down on your partner again.

Now that we have those preliminaries out of the way let's focus on the main event; giving your partner the best blow job he has ever had. First off you need to get comfortable. You need to be able to relax and enjoy what you are doing. Getting your partner to lie flat on his back gives you the greatest control. Men love this position too as it gives them the opportunity to watch what you are doing and this is a real turn on.

Once you are in position and feeling relaxed and comfortable it is time to begin. Don't just rush into things, start by teasing him and getting him aroused. You can use your hands and mouth for this. Start by kissing the inside of his thighs or maybe kissing him from the neck right down to the bottom of his stomach and stopping there. By this stage he will be so turned on and he will be anticipating your next move. You can then begin to stroke and play with his penis using gentle kisses.

Flicking your tongue back and forth across the head of the penis can also be very arousing but be careful though because this is the most sensitive area of the penis. You can also use your tongue to explore your partners penis. Don't worry about your saliva, it is quite normal to have a lot and you can use it to moisten the penis which will make it easier for your mouth to slide up and down.

When you have explored him fully the next step is to take his penis into your mouth. Allow your mouth to slide down the shaft of his penis as far as it will go. Don't worry if you can't fit it all in, this takes a lot of practice and is known as deep throating. Trying to do this at an early stage will only cause you to gag. Keep using your tongue the whole time his penis is in your mouth as this will add to his pleasure.

If you would like your partner to experience the feeling of deep throating there is a technique that you can use. You will need your hands for this. Place one hand around the shaft of his penis while you move your mouth up and down on the top half. This stimulates the feeling of deep throating.

Your hands are a crucial element if you want to know how to give good blow jobs. You can use them to help you provide more stimulation and pleasure for your partner. You can use your hands to explore and play with other parts of his body such as his testicles and his ass.
When your partner is ready to ejaculate don't stop what you are doing. Keep your strokes regular until he starts ejaculating. Whether or not he cums in your mouth is entirely up to you but make sure that you discuss this beforehand so as not to cause any embarrassment.

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