How To Give Good Head
By Allan Sharpe
Copyright © 2008, Blowjob Tutorial
No matter what you like to call it, be
it a blowjob, fellatio, or just going down on him, how to
give good head requires a great deal of trust and a good
relationship. Many women assume that because men love
blowjobs so much that they really wonít mind what itís like
as long as they get it. This is quite wrong and in fact
there are many men out there who would prefer not to get a
blowjob than to get one that is terrible.
When talking about how to give good head there are few tips
and techniques that you should try. First off know your
partner, know what he likes, how he likes it, and when he
likes it. This can make all the difference when it comes to
How to give good head really depends on you and how
committed you are. If the idea of giving a blowjob doesnít
appeal to you believe me he will know and there is nothing
worse or more off putting that getting a blowjob from
someone who views it as a chore or obligation. Men are not
idiots and they will know if youíre not enjoying yourself so
think on before you go down.
With that out of the way letís focus on the main even;
giving good head. The first thing you should know about how
to give good head is to get comfortable. If youíre not
comfortable you wonít be able to relax and enjoy what you
are doing. Getting your partner to lie on his back while you
kneel over him gives you greater control and of course he
can watch what you are doing too which is always a big turn
Once you are comfortable its time to play. Tease him a
little to get him really turned on. Start by using you hands
and caressing his penis all the time paying attention to his
responses. A little word of caution here, when stroking and
playing with his penis take extra care around the head, this
is the most sensitive area so just gentle kisses and touches
will work best.
Use your tongue, it may sound a little strange because when
many women think about how to give good head they just
assume that all they have to do is suck hard on their
partnerís penis until he comes and they have done it. Using
your tongue allows you to explore his penis and your saliva
is a natural lubricant which can help too. If your partner
has foreskin make sure to pull it down and this way you can
use your tongue to lick his really sensitive areas (where
the foreskin meets the head of the penis). If you are using
a condom this will not apply.
Once you have explored him in detail with your tongue the
next thing is to take his penis in your mouth. Make sure
your lips are covering your teeth and whatever you donít or
whatever urge you may have donít bite him no matter how
gentle, it is dangerous and he wonít thank you afterwards.
Slide your mouth down the shaft of his penis licking with
your tongue as you go. Be careful to watch the gag reflex
which is what can happen if you take him in too far. Of
course if you know how to deep throat then this wonít be a
For those who donít know how to deep throat you can use your
hands to achieve the same effect. Using your hands is a key
component in how to give good head. Placing one hand around
the shaft of his penis while you move your mouth up and down
on the top half of his penis stimulates the feeling of deep
throating and if your partner is the one on top it also lets
you stop his penis going too far into your mouth. Using your
hands will also let you play with his testicles, spank him,
or do whatever else you want (once he agrees of course).
When it comes to coming donít stop what you are doing, keep
stroking and sucking until he starts ejaculating. You can of
course continue till he has finished and then some more
which will make him moan most pleasurably. The decision to
let him cum in your mouth is entirely up to you but please
be sure to discuss it beforehand as he wonít thank you if
you suddenly jump away from him when he does.
I hope this little article
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