How To Give Good Head

By Allan Sharpe
Copyright © 2008, Blowjob Tutorial

No matter what you like to call it, be it a blowjob, fellatio, or just going down on him, how to give good head requires a great deal of trust and a good relationship. Many women assume that because men love blowjobs so much that they really wonít mind what itís like as long as they get it. This is quite wrong and in fact there are many men out there who would prefer not to get a blowjob than to get one that is terrible.

When talking about how to give good head there are few tips and techniques that you should try. First off know your partner, know what he likes, how he likes it, and when he likes it. This can make all the difference when it comes to great blowjob.

How to give good head really depends on you and how committed you are. If the idea of giving a blowjob doesnít appeal to you believe me he will know and there is nothing worse or more off putting that getting a blowjob from someone who views it as a chore or obligation. Men are not idiots and they will know if youíre not enjoying yourself so think on before you go down.

With that out of the way letís focus on the main even; giving good head. The first thing you should know about how to give good head is to get comfortable. If youíre not comfortable you wonít be able to relax and enjoy what you are doing. Getting your partner to lie on his back while you kneel over him gives you greater control and of course he can watch what you are doing too which is always a big turn on.

Once you are comfortable its time to play. Tease him a little to get him really turned on. Start by using you hands and caressing his penis all the time paying attention to his responses. A little word of caution here, when stroking and playing with his penis take extra care around the head, this is the most sensitive area so just gentle kisses and touches will work best.

Use your tongue, it may sound a little strange because when many women think about how to give good head they just assume that all they have to do is suck hard on their partnerís penis until he comes and they have done it. Using your tongue allows you to explore his penis and your saliva is a natural lubricant which can help too. If your partner has foreskin make sure to pull it down and this way you can use your tongue to lick his really sensitive areas (where the foreskin meets the head of the penis). If you are using a condom this will not apply.

Once you have explored him in detail with your tongue the next thing is to take his penis in your mouth. Make sure your lips are covering your teeth and whatever you donít or whatever urge you may have donít bite him no matter how gentle, it is dangerous and he wonít thank you afterwards. Slide your mouth down the shaft of his penis licking with your tongue as you go. Be careful to watch the gag reflex which is what can happen if you take him in too far. Of course if you know how to deep throat then this wonít be a problem.

For those who donít know how to deep throat you can use your hands to achieve the same effect. Using your hands is a key component in how to give good head. Placing one hand around the shaft of his penis while you move your mouth up and down on the top half of his penis stimulates the feeling of deep throating and if your partner is the one on top it also lets you stop his penis going too far into your mouth. Using your hands will also let you play with his testicles, spank him, or do whatever else you want (once he agrees of course).

When it comes to coming donít stop what you are doing, keep stroking and sucking until he starts ejaculating. You can of course continue till he has finished and then some more which will make him moan most pleasurably. The decision to let him cum in your mouth is entirely up to you but please be sure to discuss it beforehand as he wonít thank you if you suddenly jump away from him when he does.

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