How To Perform Oral Sex

By Allan Sharpe
Copyright © 2008, Blowjob Tutorial

If itís your first time to give your partner a blowjob then no doubt you will be wondering how to perform oral sex. Oral sex is not just something that comes naturally like sex but it is something that you can get better at the more you practice.

How To Perform Oral Sex In 7 Simple Steps

Step 1:
Remember that a manís penis is his life so be careful. Donít just pull and tug at it; be gentle. When it comes to how to perform oral sex the first thing you need to be able to do is look at your partnerís penis. You will need to see what state it is in before you begin and by this I mean whether itís fully erect or just semi-erect (there is a difference).

If your partner is only semi-erect you will need to get him going. A few gentle kisses and strokes ought to do the trick.

Step 2:
Now that you are ready to go you should take his balls gently in your left hand and his erect penis in your right hand. Lick your lips and get them wet and while doing this why not look right at your partner. Let him imagine what you are going to do next. Men love to fantasize and watch as you give them a blowjob.

Once your lips are wet and ready open your mouth ever so slightly and place his penis just inside your mouth. This may be teasing but very pleasurable for him.

Step 3:
Start with your tongue at the bottom of his shaft and slowly start licking upwards. You can turn your head sideways to make sure that you get to lick his entire penis. Donít worry about getting his penis wet most men enjoy this and it provides better lubrication. You can even use your hands to spread the liquid if need be.

Once your reach the top of his penis lick gently around the head pulling back his foreskin if he has any; this area of the penis is the most sensitive and slight flicks of your tongue will drive him wild.

Step 4:
Your left hand should still be massaging his balls all the time your are licking and sucking on his penis. You can pull his balls downwards ever so slightly too and if you are adventurous you could even try massaging the sensitive area just before his anus. Many women when asking how to perform oral sex often wonder what to do with their hands. You can do whatever you like with them, many women use them to play with their partners balls or help the blowjob along by moving them up and down on his shaft.

Step 5:
Getting into it now you can open your mouth and let his penis in as much as you can. Try to keep your tongue and his penis as wet as possible whilst doing this. Begin to move your mouth up and down on his penis and increase the speed as you go. At this stage you can ask him if he is enjoying what you are doing and be sure to take notice of his moans of pleasure.

When you hear him moan you will know you are doing exactly what he wants and this is where practice will make you perfect. If youíre not sure just ask men love to be asked what they like and believe it or not unlike some women they really will tell you.

Step 6:
How to perform oral sex is all about good communication and feeling confident with what you are doing. As you partner nears ejaculation there are a few little signs you can watch out for. He will moan a lot more and his balls will tighten. This is where you will need to have made a decision about what you intend to do before you begin performing oral sex.

Many women have a hang up about swallowing cum so if you are uncomfortable with this make sure you say so beforehand. The majority of men really wonít mind whether you swallow or not so whether you choose to watch him ejaculate into the air, keep it in your mouth and spit it out later, or let him cum all over your breasts the choice is entirely yours.

Step 7:
This is the most important step, relax, enjoy, and get ready to start all over again.

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