How To Perform Oral Sex
By Allan Sharpe
Copyright © 2008, Blowjob Tutorial
If itís your first time to give your
partner a blowjob then no doubt you will be wondering how to
perform oral sex. Oral sex is not just something that comes
naturally like sex but it is something that you can get
better at the more you practice.
How To Perform Oral Sex In 7 Simple Steps
Remember that a manís penis is his life so be careful. Donít
just pull and tug at it; be gentle. When it comes to how to
perform oral sex the first thing you need to be able to do
is look at your partnerís penis. You will need to see what
state it is in before you begin and by this I mean whether
itís fully erect or just semi-erect (there is a difference).
If your partner is only semi-erect you will need to get him
going. A few gentle kisses and strokes ought to do the
Now that you are ready to go you should take his balls
gently in your left hand and his erect penis in your right
hand. Lick your lips and get them wet and while doing this
why not look right at your partner. Let him imagine what you
are going to do next. Men love to fantasize and watch as you
give them a blowjob.
Once your lips are wet and ready open your mouth ever so
slightly and place his penis just inside your mouth. This
may be teasing but very pleasurable for him.
Start with your tongue at the bottom of his shaft and slowly
start licking upwards. You can turn your head sideways to
make sure that you get to lick his entire penis. Donít worry
about getting his penis wet most men enjoy this and it
provides better lubrication. You can even use your hands to
spread the liquid if need be.
Once your reach the top of his penis lick gently around the
head pulling back his foreskin if he has any; this area of
the penis is the most sensitive and slight flicks of your
tongue will drive him wild.
Your left hand should still be massaging his balls all the
time your are licking and sucking on his penis. You can pull
his balls downwards ever so slightly too and if you are
adventurous you could even try massaging the sensitive area
just before his anus. Many women when asking how to perform
oral sex often wonder what to do with their hands. You can
do whatever you like with them, many women use them to play
with their partners balls or help the blowjob along by
moving them up and down on his shaft.
Getting into it now you can open your mouth and let his
penis in as much as you can. Try to keep your tongue and his
penis as wet as possible whilst doing this. Begin to move
your mouth up and down on his penis and increase the speed
as you go. At this stage you can ask him if he is enjoying
what you are doing and be sure to take notice of his moans
When you hear him moan you will know you are doing exactly
what he wants and this is where practice will make you
perfect. If youíre not sure just ask men love to be asked
what they like and believe it or not unlike some women they
really will tell you.
How to perform oral sex is all about good communication and
feeling confident with what you are doing. As you partner
nears ejaculation there are a few little signs you can watch
out for. He will moan a lot more and his balls will tighten.
This is where you will need to have made a decision about
what you intend to do before you begin performing oral sex.
Many women have a hang up about swallowing cum so if you are
uncomfortable with this make sure you say so beforehand. The
majority of men really wonít mind whether you swallow or not
so whether you choose to watch him ejaculate into the air,
keep it in your mouth and spit it out later, or let him cum
all over your breasts the choice is entirely yours.
This is the most important step, relax, enjoy, and get ready
to start all over again.
I hope this little article
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