Oral Sex Instructions

By Allan Sharpe
Copyright 2008, Blowjob Tutorial


It doesn't matter what you call it, fellatio, blowjob, going down, or even giving head, it is all about pleasing your man and if you're new to this you need oral sex instructions. There are a lot of variations and different oral sex skill so listed below you will find 9 steps to take your man to heaven and back.

  1. Start Clean
    If you are new to oral sex you may be concerned about the smell and taste of your partner's penis so I suggest you take a bath or shower together to get in the mood. You can of course also use some flavored condoms if you are practicing safe sex, or invest in some flavored lubricant.

  2. Relax and get Comfortable
    You need to relax and enjoy what you are doing. Giving a blowjob should be just as enjoyable for you and you need to be comfortable in order to do things right. If you want to be in full control have your partner lie on his back.

  3. Start by Teasing
    Using your hands and tongue you can should start by gently teasing your partner. You can do this by caressing and kissing his inner thighs, testicles, and penis. Pay attention to his reactions so that you know what is turning him on. If you don't know, the most sensitive part of a man's penis is the head, and in particular the frenulum which is the indentation on the underside of the penis between the head and the shaft.

  4. Licking works wonders
    Using your tongue to explore is great. Don't worry about using lots of saliva this feels great and helps your mouth to move easier.

  5. Take Him In Your Mouth
    Once your partner is semi-erect you can take him into your mouth. Do this slowly at first guiding your lips over the tip of his penis. Be sure to cover your teeth with your lips though as teeth can be dangerous and cause scratches in the heat of the moment. Slide your mouth gently down the shaft of his penis as far as you can go.

  6. Don't Gag
    If you don't know how to deep throat, don't try it, you will only start gagging. It takes a lot of practice to master this so be patient.

  7. Use your tongue and your mouth
    When you are moving your head back up the penis use your tongue on the underside to add to the pleasure. You can also use your tongue to flick the tip of the penis and in circular motions around the head too. Don't be afraid to try out different techniques and ask your partner afterwards what he liked best.

    If you partner is uncircumcised you can put your tongue into the foreskin and circle the head of the penis. This can be very stimulating.

  8. Use your hands and mouth
    If you really want to give a good blowjob then you need to use your hands as well. By placing one hand (thumb and forefinger) around the shaft of the penis when you move up and down on the top of the penis you can stimulate the feeling of deep throating.

    You can also use your other hand but placed at your mouth to add more pressure as you move down the shaft of the penis.

  9. Ejaculation
    When your partner is ready to ejaculate don't stop what you are doing. Keep your movements consistent. Once he starts ejaculating you can stop after a few strokes. The decision to spit or swallow is entirely up to you and there is nothing wrong with either option.
    These oral sex instructions will have you giving great blowjobs even if it is your first time. Don't forget communication is the key to success so get talking about what he likes.

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